Last week one of my friends died in a 4wheeling accident. She was only 28 years old. I was so shocked! Having kids myself, I can start to comprehend the pain her family is going through. I always thought I knew how much I would love my kids when they came, but it was not until I had them that I realized how much parents really love their kids.
These last couple of weeks have made me think about how I take so many things in life for granted. It's so easy to think that the people I love are always going to be around, but the truth is, something can happen to them at any minute. I can loose them! That thought really scares me!
Growing up my father never told us he loved us, was proud of us, or appreciated anything we did. He taught us a lot of great things, but expressing our feelings wasn't one of them.
I tell my kids and my husband I love them everyday, but I have never really told my siblings and parents how much I love and appreciate each one of them. My father always told us that we need to do things for the living. That once people die, going to their graves and crying won't help with any regrets we have. He is so right (although I hate admitting it)!
So I decided to write down a few of the things I would say to my family:
Dad- we don't always get along...well, I should say we hardly ever get along, and although you were so strict and hard on me growing up, I appreciate all the good values and morals you taught me. I know you love me in your own way and I love you too! I wouldn't be who I am today without you.
Mom- There aren't words to describe how much I love you. You have been there for me through everything. I don't think I could've gone through the hard times in my life without you.
Alex- You're so full of wisdom, so calm. You're such an example to me. You have accomplished so much in life.
Sam- You have always taken care of me. You were so crazy at times growing up, but I have always admire how you weren't afraid to do what you felt you should.
Camilla- You're so independent, so self confident, so tough. But there's also this soft, caring side to you that I love so much.
Jenn- I know I can always talk to you. You always stay so strong and have such a great attitude. You always help me see the good things in life.
Sarah- I'm so proud of you! I can't believe you're all grown up. You are so responsible and so mature. And of course, as mom says "voce e a mais linda de todas!"
Life is so short! I really need to start appreciating every minute of it. Some times it's so easy to only see the half empty glass. I really need to start enjoying my half full glass.
